Frozen feelings

We say time moves on and so does the feelings but do actually the feelings(I am talking about real feelings, not some stupid idiotic temporary ones) change by themselves or we change them by deciding what to feel and what not to?

Time passes away so quick when you are happy and when you are not, you actually realize each and every second! But we keep moving on, after all we are humans of the modern age but we should actually ask ourselves do we really move on or leave behind the past? Try not to answer it if you are not strong enough to handle the truth right now.

And feelings!
Well they can be bad or good. Bad ones make our eyes go tearful and the good ones bring the best smile on our face.
And here I ask the same question again, Do we really move on from the bad ones?
NO(this is the answer of a cynical person)
We say we have moved on to feel strong in front of others and ourselves but when anything related happens we go back in past for at least few seconds and then it entirely depends on us, for how much time we live in our past then.
Past never actually leaves us, it stays forever and keeps reliving all feelings time to time.
We tend to move away from anything that is unpleasant and we do the same with the feelings. Trying to get rid of them is the most stupid human effort because its our heart which feels not the practical brain so when it comes to feelings brain+heart is the best combo. Trust me!                                                        
These frozen feelings are a pain in the ass sometimes but then thinking how much time has changed us from that time is a relief only when you have gone matured and if you have not then get matured!
But seriously there is always a smile on our face thinking about the time before the tsunami of painful feelings hit us and that is the actual pretty smile because a feeling is painful only if you have had the best time before that.