Plans

Do they always work the way you want them to?
Well not always but sometimes they do.
I had my plans but lately they are not working the way they should. Few days more and the results will be in front of me and they are going to decide my whole one year and I have got a hunch that I will be screwed real bad.
It creeps me out when I know I am the loser now. I know I could have put more efforts and I can come up with zillion reasons why I did not but that would be cheating myself only. Its not like I was sitting like a lazyass doing nothing. I did work for the things I wanted but I did not give my best shot!
Things have not turned as I expected them to be and now here I am, clueless and helpless. All the mess I have done is in front of me and I do not know how to clean it up!
At some places I did really good but it seems it is not enough.The main thing got screwed.
People expected more out of me, I disappointed them and seeing their reactions now gives me that loser feeling more and more.
Instead of the judgement and lame opinions, I want some support and love.
Everyone screws up and what they want at that time is some understanding and support not judgement and criticism! If you cannot give the first two things then do not bother to give the last two. Its good to be straight-forward but there are always gentle ways to express your views.
So if the person is already feeling low because the plan did not work well then do not judge. Let him/her be rational again and then he/she will take the best decisions.
All they NEED to get back on the plan is some TIME and SUPPORT!