One of the heavist word I have came across. You put it in the wrong thing or wrong person and you are screwed real bad. But people today are too smart. Everyone has trust issues and that is because of the baggage that person is carrying but at the end of the day we are humans. We get fooled some or the other time and we never stop learning from our mistakes. I am talking about one's personal life here not the professional one. If you make such mistakes there then buddy you are actually screwed! (but you can recover from it).
It does not come in a day or two. It requires time.Long time. Good and bad both. If someone tells you just after few days knowing her/him that she/he trusts you then please please please keep in mind that she/he would not take few minutes to get over the situation and certainly she/he is unaware of the meaning of the word.
Emotions and feelings are diluted in this era. People are selfish. You, me and everyone. But what matters is how diluted are the emotions and feelings? Very few times people actually mean what they are saying and even if they mean what they are saying, you never know till when they will stick to their words because feelings do change and the unspoken words do come out one day.
I am not being cynical here but yes this is the scenario. People hurt you intentionally and unintentionally. I am not saying everyone is going to break your trust but yes at some point of time somethings will happen which will shake your trust. You have to hold on then. Do not let it affect your feelings or emotions. Try to be more strong. Life is too short to spend while holding grudges within yourself. Enjoy your life. Let all the emotions and feelings come out. Just because of a single (or sometimes multiple) awful incident, do not change the way you take things. Be more careful but do not hold yourself.
Do not trust someone so much, so that any unpleasant incident can shake you. Trust enough to have a healthy relationship. If the relatinoship is worth it, your intuitions will guide you properly.
So do not deal with emotions as a task. And when it comes to trust, BE CAREFUL!
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