No judgment please!

We live in The Incredible India, the place where people judge you by the way you dress up, talk, walk, eat, live and do everything. People who don’t even know you, people passing you by on a road, people you are working with etc. judge you and keep that perception about you in their mind.

Obviously judgmental nature comes with the human nature but at least get to know the person and then stick to your perception.

The girl sitting alone on the last bench with her earphones plugged in, had got attitude if she is not talking to anyone. If guys of her class approach her and talk to her then she is a slut because she talks to guys only. The girl talking sweetly with everyone is a flirt. The girl getting frank soon is easy going. The girl wearing shorts, partying and boozing is easy to take to bed. The girl who is flirting wants to have sex with you and it goes on and on. I mean come on, you have no clue what is going in her head and why she is like this? Stop taking everything in a twisted way, for once stop making perceptions!

May be she is a screw up and all she needs at the moment is no judgment.

Stop judging! Everyone has his/her own issues and you don’t know what that person is actually feeling because of them, unless you know the person or you have been through the person in that phase.

I am writing this from a girl's perspective because I and my girl-friends have experienced this. It gets hard when you can’t be yourself with people around. Everyone goes or is going through some thing and that changes the person a little bit. Instead of being all judgmental, prefer to be quiet and supportive or if you can't be supportive, just be quiet.

This judgmental nature of people pisses me off. This has been the reason so many times when I have seen people doing something which they don’t want to but are doing just to escape from the judgment. You may not realize but your judgmental nature is sometimes harsh and if it goes on for long then people might avoid sharing their problems with you. So try not to be judgmental. Just try it once. It makes you feel good and most importantly the people around you.